How to Find the Right Provider for Your Child’s Diagnosis: Make an Informed Decision

This is part four of a four-part series about finding the right specialty doctor for your child’s diagnosis, with guidance from members of the Shriners Children’s healthcare system. Read part one. Read part two. Read part three.

Ask the Right Questions

When evaluating a pediatric provider, asking the right questions is essential to ensure that you understand their approach to care and feel confident in their ability to meet your child’s needs, Connie Wilson, RN, MSN, CNOR, CSPDT, director of patient care services and nurse executive at Shriners Children’s Lexington, said. Here are her key questions to consider regarding various topics.

It may seem like a lot, but doing your due diligence is worth it. “By asking these questions, you can gain a clearer understanding of the provider’s qualifications, approach to care and how well they align with your child’s needs and your family’s preferences,” Wilson said. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, bring this article, and use it as a checklist to guide you through the process.

Trust Your Instincts

Ultimately, this is a decision that’s going to deeply impact you and your family, so keep that in mind. “Trust your own judgment and comfort level with the provider and facility,” Wilson said. “Your intuition about what feels right for your child and family is important.”

Reflect on your family’s particular needs, too. “Consider how the providers align with your child’s specific medical needs, your family’s preferences and logistical considerations,” she said, adding that you should feel confident in your choice of provider.

And don’t forget to ask for one essential opinion: your child’s. “Listening to your child’s thoughts, opinions and feedback about a pediatric healthcare provider is important for several reasons,” Wilson said.

Kids are more likely to be cooperative and honest about their treatment if they feel comfortable, and their feedback can provide valuable insights into how well the provider is communicating with them, she said. A child’s emotional response to their treatment environment can significantly impact their overall experience, and involving your child in discussions about their care helps them feel more in control and respected. “This can be empowering and contribute to a more positive outlook on their treatment,” she said.

At the end of the day, choosing a specialty provider to diagnose your child should be a team effort, Wilson said. “It’s important to balance your child’s feedback with professional medical advice. While their input is valuable, the final decision should also consider the provider’s expertise and recommendations. Open communication between you, your child, and the healthcare provider is key to ensuring the best outcomes for your child’s care.”